Accelerate success with a new 'You'! You are rare! You are unique! Celebrate your Uniqueness!
We are all different and have developed unique personalities over the years. We have gone through different experiences in life and these have in no small measure contributed to the personality we possess today. These experiences have undoubtedly had influences on how we look, think, talk and behave. They also determine to a large extent to the choice of business or profession, relationships or status we are in today. Each individual has his own unique characteristics, attributes and attitudes that make them who they are today.
Personality is not something about how we look, or how we speak or how we behave, or how easily we can connect with people as we normally perceive. Personality is none of these. Or somewhere it is all of it. It is actually stabilizing the ever vibrant life energy circulation in our system through conscious action devotion and knowledge; physical mental and social progress respectively. In a literal sense Personality development means the progress in health, the quality of life, the complex of all the attributes-behavioral, temperamental, emotional and mental-that characterize a unique individual. More over it is our presence!
Evidently before we get on developing something we need to know all about it first. The same goes with our personality. Metaphysical study of the origin and nature of human being is very essential. Everyone will have the power and ability to shape their personalities however they wish, if they learn their constitution and aware of it's connection with nature. The key element is 'breath', the real secret, the connection, the subtle link between you and nature which is driving our life-journey. Little attention on the way we breathe can open up numerous secrets to our personality.
It is no longer just about how much effort we put into our work, our actions but one’s Personality also has a lot to do with his awareness attitude the devotion, knowledge and achievements. What we need to do is, we need to start by taking a good look at ourselves- analyzing our traits, the strengths and weaknesses and everything that needs to be worked upon.
This website, in whole, is an enchiridion for everyone who is eager to realize their constitution, higher values of life. and develop themselves. This article specially is an inspiring compilation of theories concepts and mental exercises that derive profound insights by actively engaging and involving an individual wholesomely in a proficient manner to start working on development. When we develop ourselves to be 'all that we can be', we contribute to our own, as well as the health and happiness of others!
Understanding, retention and application are very easy and long lasting when you learn with practical application. Go through the set sequence of steps briefed below for an orderly progression and study the whole web site thoroughly adeptly each page at your time and discover how fostered living enhances personality that is our birthright!
ENHANCE YOUR 'NERVE ENERGY'
How we look how we feel and how we behave is an indication of what is happening with our energy! Energy ebbs and flows within us; so noticing what causes these ebbs and flows allows us to develop our life from a healthy perspective. The quantity and quality of energy and the way it flows through us has lot of effect on the way we think which has a lot of effect on the way how you behave or act. We convey so much through our energy our presence. Our thoughts our actions- mind and body both need to be positive in order to have an attractive personality. And if we prosper positive thoughts inside our mind then that gives us a confidence boost which enhances our enthusiasm. Everything that acts on the body and mind use up energy reflects our enthusiasm. Using nerve energy in excess of normal production, results in enervation and toxemia. A good attention of the rise and falls of energy level enable us to judge the quality of our own personality and health as well.
Every moment we get energy and we lose energy. When the energy we receive is greater than the energy we lose, we feel alert happy and enthusiastic. When the energy we lose is greater than the energy we receive we feel dull, lazy and sick. A preponderance of energy indicates a mental state conducive to higher values in life. The quantity and quality of energy and the way in which it flows through our nerves determine ones state of mind and emotions. When we are happy, serene, aware, loving and compassionate is an indication of preponderance of vital force. When we are vain, domineering, jealous, envious, hateful, restless, arrogant, guilty all shows a fall in vital force. When our mind is lethargic, confused, sad easily angered for no justifiable cause, deluded and unable to comprehend, vulnerable to sensual impulses; it is to be understood that we have lack of life force.
Everyone wants to be successful in life. But success is not just having enough wealth and fame. One may have enough of it, but, if the body is enervated gets sick, one cannot enjoy what one has. Best wealth is the relaxed energetic nerves. Innocent one doesn't have to make any effort to nurture their nerves. It all happens naturally unobstructed. Innocently maintain high energy levels throughout the day; refer ‘supreme life style’ to know more about life force and source; apply the techniques suggested, help to produce, maintain and preserve nerve energy and have a persistent determination and passion to reach your goal. Once you are proficient in maintaining nerve energy, conscious about its source and leaks, you get the ability to expand your awareness, stay focused and work on your goal of success while you stay calm and serene. One who can learn to flow with the nerve energy- life force as well as manage the life force is the most successful one!
ENHANCE YOUR 'CONCENTRATION '
Once nerve energy is restored certainly awareness will improve; as a preliminary step we must learn to concentrate on whatever we do, whatever we plan. We often say that we are not able to concentrate. The inability to attain any level of concentration is only due to enervation. It is never true that we cannot concentrate. What we lack is the ability to concentrate our mind on everything and under all circumstances. The difficulty arises when we have to practice concentrate on something unpleasant. Yet all that is pleasant is not necessarily good. On the other hand, what is unpleasant may be good and beneficial. So we must learn to concentrate on right practice whether pleasant or unpleasant as well as it is beneficial for us. This is possible by start concentrating on what is pleasant without much effort as it is very easy to concentrate and slowly transpose our awareness orderly to the next.
What you hear, you may forget; what you see you will remember; what you do you would understand. You remember only 10% of what you read, 20% of what you hear, 30% of what you see, 50% of what you see and hear, 70% of what you say and 90% of what you do. So the capacity for concentration comes in stages by reading, watching, listening, saying and doing. One should steadfastly follow these techniques suggested to enhance ability until a valid level of concentration awareness is achieved. Normally we are not able to concentrate because mind vacillate and get stuck somewhere which drains our energy. But, if our inner faculties are made powerful with the power of concentration and other techniques, we will get the ability to let go of stupid thoughts, and we will not act on them. We will act only on those which find beneficial. This is what awareness brings in us. If we are not aware, we simply act on the strongest impulse or strongest thought and become imperfect in our feelings. But if you are alert, you will see there is more awareness and more perfection then you choose to act or not to act which saves energy.
Next step is to thoughtfully engage your energy and awareness in perfecting your action, speech and emotions. It is very rare, absolutely rare, to find one who is perfect in these three who feels good, speaks just right and soft and whose actions are perfect. Somebody's action or speech may be imperfect, but listening to that if your feelings become imperfect, you are no better than them. So the first step is to cultivate the habit of perfecting your emotions feelings at all costs. That is when you get the ability to accept the people and situations as they are. When somebody's action or speech is wrong do not let your emotion take over you. Don't become imperfect in your feelings. Of course we cannot have the same feelings all the time. Your feelings can change. So think constructively. There is a strange relationship between thoughts and feelings if you have observed. Thoughts provoke feelings. and feelings in return can, can bring about some more thoughts. So utilize your saved energy and consciousness in thinking constructively and perfecting your feelings. Only awareness the by-product of nerve energy can think, act, speak or hear which is authentic.
Situations and circumstances in life can always be full ups downs and challenges. But in order to adopt a positive outlook towards life, you need to find the bright side of the things and focus on the good parts with a healthy perspective. When we perform actions with a healthy perspective with no selfish attitude it helps to purify the mind, purifies our heart, eliminates fear, focuses our mind and gives a true meaning and direction to our life. Management happens in the mind and when it manages itself better it can manage anything.
MAKE A TRIP 'KNOWLEDGE' TO 'WISDOM'
According to Science the knowledge can be gained through one of the two ways only- “Perception and Inference”. Actually there are three types of knowledge or information that we get. The knowledge based on Perception is gained through 5 gate ways of sound, touch, form, taste and smell. Most of our knowledge is gained by these five senses. You see and you get some knowledge, you listen and you get knowledge, you smell and you get information, through taste you get information and through touch. Unfortunately the perception or this form of knowledge is about external objects and cannot be used for knowing our own personality.
The second way of knowledge, the “inference” is based one’s intellect, analysis and contextual understanding of external objects. Knowledge gained through intellect is science. For example what you see with your eyes is sun setting, but what you learn through science is that sun doesn't set. The earth revolves round the sun. You have not seen the earth revolving through any of the five senses, but through the intellect, you understand that the earth is revolving around the sun. This intellectual knowledge is superior to knowledge gained through the senses. Like in a jar of water, you keep a pen, you see that the pen is bent. That is the perception, but intellect will say, no it is not bent, it is an optical illusion. Based on different contexts the set of facts or circumstances that surround a situation will change, inference may change. Inference is the reasoning involved in drawing a conclusion making a logical judgment on the basis of circumstantial evidence and prior conclusions rather than on the basis of direct observation.
Actually these two levels of knowledge are far inferior to the third level of knowledge. Hence this cannot be used knowing our personality as it is outside the domain of senses and intellect, inference always subject to change. The third level of knowledge is intuitive knowledge. This knowledge from the spirit; comes from silence or innocence. It cannot be verified by the senses or intellect. Knowledge which comes through beyond these two, is another level of knowledge beyond just existence. The rule of existence is beyond perception and inference, the life begins when we tap in to that level of intuitive knowledge. It offers a higher form of knowledge which is beyond the usual means and gave statements of reality of the self.
The fundamental prerequisite of one who wants to develop himself is the acceptance of this third form of knowledge as a source and actually the secret source of knowledge. But how would you tap into this level of knowledge which is not through the senses or through the intellect? For that we have to let go of the knowledge from the senses and the intellect and relax, you need to be innocent. The moment you let go and say I don't want to see, hear, smell and taste or even want to know anything, then the cravings and aversions through the senses stop. All our cravings are about five sensory perceptions. it cannot be anything beyond that.
Letting go of all the intellectual concepts, judgments is the second step. How should this be? how should that be? Am i doing the right thing? Am I on the right track? should I go on? when we drop all these things, then silence begins, then the knowledge from the third level dawns. This true knowledge that comes from beyond the intellect is the gut feeling or intuitive knowledge. Some times our intellect says, "what I am doing is wrong", but we don't listen to the intellect. We keep doing the wrong things sticking on to the sensory experience and ignore the intellectual knowledge. We sometimes go beyond our intellect. Our intellect is saying something but our inner gut feeling saying something else. That is intuition. Intuition means that which simply comes up beyond reason. this needs to be developed. so don't depend only own senses and intellect. Intuitive sense is very important. This is deeper and closer to to the truth. This attitude of accepting the knowledge of real truth is called as “Dedication” a Complete wholehearted quality of being faithful.
Dedication gives you more understanding, and more knowledge. With dedication you first “accept” and then try to validate through deep analysis, discussions, clarifications till the last traces of doubts are removed. This is an innocent attitude from the modern western way of seeking knowledge where proof precedes the acceptance. The analogy given here is like someone saying- “Prove me that I can see first, before I open my eyes.” It is impossible to prove this type of knowledge. All that is needed is “open and see yourself”. It is experiencing reality the way it is. When knowledge becomes strongly embedded in our consciousness, it is called wisdom. Wisdom in simple language is, being conscious of the essence of all you know.
KNOW MORE ABOUT 'DEDICATION'
Life cannot progress without unmitigated faith. we need to believe in the people around us and above all we need to have faith in the laws of nature that mostly appear incomprehensible to the human mind.
The entire universe is made of matter and hence it is called as material universe. The science deals with various elements of gross matter like atoms, compounds, elements etc. If we have to describe a concept which is beyond material, we cannot use the techniques of Perception or Inference or even Intuition- an impression that something might be the case. When we need to understand a concept of the super intelligence power behind the function of creation our body, breath, mind, memory, intellect, ego and heart, it has to be known only through an integrated need study is essential where dedication or faith is very important.
Dedication truly means loving the unknown. You either love or do not love that which you already know about. But if there is something you do not know, then you do not hate it right? You also have a choice to love it or not. Loving something which you have no idea about is called dedication. Dedication brings you knowledge. It is very subtle. You have to catch this else it slips from your understanding. There is something that is unknown, and you love it. And because of your love, you slowly start knowing it. For example: Say you do not know what meditation is, but you start liking it and do it, and then you start knowing it. You feel, 'Oh wow, meditation is so good'. So dedication gives you more understanding, and more knowledge.
If there is a resistance in you, then that is a lack of dedication. It means that even before knowing something, you have a resistance to it. It is like putting a wall, thinking, 'I shall sit separately. I do not want to know this'. Then you cannot know it at all. When you say, 'I do not like it', then you also cannot know it. When you think, Oh! There is something new, I love this', then loving the unknown is what is called faith. It is not even important that you understand it totally, yet its benefits surely come to you.
Faith is very important. Faith brings totality the power in you. It pulls together all the loose ends of our consciousness. Faith integrates your whole personality. ‘Dedication’ leverages the power of submarine knowledge to come to the surface. Only through "Dedication" you can cross the ocean of delusion. When the knowledge is in order, you can loco mote back get in touch with the source as and when needed, then all of other tensions, worries which have been clouding the manifestation, fall off and you can sing, dance, and celebrate life. That connection link between you and the source is WISDOM.
You need not to be goody-goody in the world. You act in the world with intelligence with the heart with innocence with the understanding that the Divine power is present even in the worst possible situation. That is wholesome knowledge 'wisdom'. This knowledge will maintain the connection with the source of life which conveys an organizing power- ‘wisdom’ which organizes the mind. Mind organizes the life. When life is organized nobody can shake you.
CHANNELISE YOUR ENERGY- 'COMMITMENT'
Life runs on commitment. Commitment is the act of binding yourself (intellectually or emotionally) to a course of action. A river needs two banks to flow. The difference between flood and a flowing river is that, in the latter the water flows in a particular direction whereas in floods, the water is muddled and has no direction. Just as water has to keep flowing, our life has to keep moving. In our life when we are concentrated in improving, there is so much flow of energy through us but when this life energy is not channelized doesn’t know where to go, how to go, it gets stuck and rots! If the life energy is not given a direction, it is all confusion.
The first step of channelization is not to get carried away with your emotions, be alert and act wisely. Do not let your emotions get the better of you. Emotions have their own place in building character where you have to be intelligent and act wisely. This is where knowledge is very essential. When you channelize your actions with the power of knowledge your character will become more symmetrical. Then life will become a sheer journey of success. The commitment- track made towards progress should be strong enough that the life locomotive run on its full potential. Always Life should have some objective and each objective should have commitment.
The more you are committed the more you are strong. In every area of life there is commitment. Government works on commitment. Family runs on commitment; the mother is committed to the child, the child is committed to the parents, the husband is committed to the wife, and the wife is committed to the husband. Whether it is love or business or friendship or any area of life, there is commitment. Hence it is very important to organize you, channelize you intellectually and emotionally towards progress. Commitment is that act of channelizing your actions, behavior and thoughts the loyalty that one owes to his own progress which prepares him in good working order.
We expect some commitment from someone and when they don’t do it, we get upset. Or when someone doesn’t keep up his or her responsibility, we get upset. What really irritates us is irresponsibility non-commitment. Once we are aware this phenomenon, how non-commitment irritates us enervate us, it help to prevent the mind from sliding down and being influenced by negative forces distracting us. You get the power to take responsibility!
INTEGRATED APPROACH 'RESPONSIBILITY'
Progress of humanness literally based on our ability taking responsibility. What is responsibility? The Ability to respond! It is that social force that binds us to a course of action demanded at any given time. Responsibility is that human attitude to do whatever is required to be done at any given moment. Responsibility and commitment always go hand in hand. Responsibility is the social force that binds you to a course of action, and commitment is the act of binding you to a course of action. Our capacity or capability is always proportionate to our commitment and sense of responsibility. We are responsible for every happenings or events in our life.
Responsibility is whatever is within our power to do. When we take responsibility, we become powerful. Our capability increases, strength increases. Taking responsibility for our feeling and actions makes us powerful. Blaming other people or situations for our feelings and circumstances makes us weak. Normally we complain about things when we think we are not responsible. Fact is that we are responsible either for our actions or for our inaction.
Most problems in the world are social evils rooted in the selfishness of people. What most of the people deem is that, is it possible for anyone like me to create such a perfect world? As others are not under my control, it is not possible for me to transform others and make them perfect. On the other hand, we are not aware that there is one person who is under my control- whom I can transform and make perfect. That person is no other than my-self. If I can make my-self perfect, to that extent the other people or world will also be perfect. Rather than being an obsessed do-gooder I should try to change my-self first before trying to change the world. That is our prime responsibility.
At some point of time, responsibility is a deep awareness of sympathy and sharing another's suffering; the humane quality of understanding the suffering of others and wanting to do something about it. That intention is responsibility. As we let our stress go, mind stop going to the past and future then our awareness expands and we feel greater sense of belonging. As our sense of belonging grows, our sense of responsibility expands. Then we will have enough strength socially to bind our-self in to persistent determination and responsibility.
There is nothing much in doing what we can do, there is no growth. Stretching a little beyond our capacity, will increase our capacity. If we are committed to taking care of our family, that much capacity we gain. If our commitment is to the community, we will get that much energy, joy, that much power. Growth comes as we take more responsibility.
HAVE A GOAL
The purpose of any goal is the same, to have an objective on which you can focus, for which you can strive. Behind every action, there is a motivation to get a specific desired result. Since every action is done with an eye on a specific goal, the expectation of the result affects the process of the action. Of course there is much more to life than setting and achieving goals. Yet it is something that sets things rolling.
Life has an intelligence of its own and it might not be completely wrong to say that; it has an inherent design coded in it. Then being a part of this life brings two choices; to accept life as destiny and go along with the wind or to go against the tide. The fruit of action is what motivates one to act, but you can take a break from the fruit of action when you let go of the result and become totally centered in the action itself.
Everyone wants to improve and often set some goal in mind, like wanting a calmer mind, better at dealing with adverse situations, a kinder heart. And there must have been times, when we have felt that we should let go of our goals. But if the result is different from the perceived goals; how do we react? How to find the strength to accept the result? This is where wisdom, commitment and responsibility to help!
CULTIVATE MORE 'INTERESTS'
Once you are in the path of progression it is very important to cultivate more interests. The more you learn and cultivate more interests, the more interesting you are to others. A man of very few interests has very little to work about. But if you are well informed about things and cultivate a number of interests, more people tend to like you.
Usually, we think we should have resources and then we will commit ourselves take responsibility. It is actually otherwise. Greater the responsibility you take, larger the resources that will come to you automatically. When you have the intention to do something, resources simply flow in when they are needed and in the amount, they are needed.
So stretch your-self little more beyond your capacity and cultivate more interests. If you have only one thing to do and that goes wrong, then you are stuck with it. Take responsibility and start doing something for the society. In whatever capacity you do something for society, for the environment, for the creation, that much you progress both materially and spiritually (value wise). The heart opens up with a feeling that you are part of everyone. When you have many things to do then only even if one thing goes wrong, you can keep doing the remaining things.
Meeting new and different kinds of people is one of the best healthy steps towards expanding your horizons exposing yourself to a larger number of things. You get an opportunity to know more about other cultures and lifestyles and it significantly will have a positive effect on your own personality. Take the effort to meet new people especially those marked by dissimilarity not similar to you, different from you accepting them as they are. It not only exposes you to different cultures and alternative ways of doing things, it broadens your horizons. It is a prime healthy step to develop your personality.
We should see everything with a larger perspective. Most of us stuck in a small hole, me and my family and suffocates in struggle or suffering. Smaller commitments suffocate you because you have more capacity. Take life as a challenge a way to express the multitude of love & knowledge and its manifestations with the people around you. When you meet people with level-headedness, you do not have to think about what to do or say as you can share your creative ideas or your interests and get them indulged in your interests. You will be accepted by the people around you when you are truthful, transparent and pleasant.
STRETCH YOURSELF ON THE FOLLOWING
There is no growth in spending time doing what you can do comfortably or you are doing. Stretching a little beyond your capacity physically mentally emotionally spiritually makes you grow. If you can take care of your work job because it is within your capacity, there is nothing great about it. But if you stretch little more and take commitment to take care share love compassion to the people around whole village, then you gain that much more power. As you take on greater responsibility, your capability increases, your talents increase, your joy increases and you become one with the success.
We will have enough strength to face any situation. Highest fear we face in meeting people is criticism. There are people who criticise those who do great deeds and then there are also people who support those who do wrong deeds. Welcome Criticism! Know that, Criticism is just disapproval expressed by someone pointing out faults or shortcomings where we need a serious self examination and judgment. If the criticism is meant for correcting, we should accept it, correct it. If criticism is meant for insulting, we should ignore smiling at them, feel compassionate about them. That is wisdom.
People want everyone to abide by what they say. Does this happen? This is never possible. Every person has a different way of thinking working. We should accept it. First accept people as they are and then make an effort to transform them. Issuing commands or orders results only in tribulations an annoying or frustrating event atmosphere in the society. This trouble of not being able to agree or understand others feeling is the great impediment in self development. Love and knowledge the outputs of energy can remedy this contingency smoothly. When there is energy there is love, we will be able to maintain our self esteem, will be able to move through challenges.
Simultaneous step is to be a good listener and have an opinion. Most people do not listen with the intent to understand and only listen with the intent to reply. Being a good listener may not seem like but it is an important step towards achieving a more likable personality. When somebody talks to you, listen with interest and give them all the attention and importance. Maintain a direct connection with them and do not get distracted by the surroundings. It will help you in knowing a better deal about people and attending them in a better way. When, you have an uncommon point of view or differing opinion, never shy away from projecting your opinions even if they happen to conflict with those of other people. Having an opinion and being able to confidently put it forward doesn’t just help making our conversations interactions interesting but it also makes you more responsible influential and well informed around different situations in life. A conversation has nowhere to go if you have nothing to expound on.
Be well informed interesting and stimulating to be with socially about all the relevant stuff in your surrounding and feel free to have and express opinions with level head. You would have experienced number of times that there is nothing more tiresome than trying to talk to someone who has no opinion on anything. Since each of us is unique, expressing that uniqueness is what makes us interesting. At the same time take care that, we shouldn’t be a football of others’ opinions. It is foolishness that having no opinions and trying to be something we are not. Molding our-self in order to fit in, or be accepted, no doubt it backfires. We shouldn’t base our lives on the opinions of others and never try to be someone or something we are not.
That makes us egoistic with egotism. When we are egoistic you become unnatural, brings heaviness, fear, anxiety and we want to prove and posses instead of sharing caring joy and compassion. Egoism makes us feel contempt lack of respect accompanied by a feeling of intense dislike or jealousy towards people instead of compassion. Egoism stops giving drive for one towards progress, do work where as Ego provides the drive. A person gets drive to work out of joy, compassion and out of ego.
Ego rots to egoism or egotism when we get more attention, when we don’t get attention, when we seem to be losing attention. Any way we need to pierce through it with the whole consciousness to reach success. It is very easy to go pierce through a transformed ego with love and knowledge; no secrecy in that. A transformed ego is the ego with knowledge, with wisdom.
Being natural honest and true to our words and actions will bring us the admiration, respect and gratitude of others. Unless we have our higher ideals great affection, our selfishness will continue to devastate society, and the world will be a terrible place to live in. Nothing improves a person's personality more than integrity and respect- respect for others, as well as respect for our-self.
One other most important thing is, While speaking and working we need to focus on the quantity and quality and outcome. Our speech should have the relevant stuff and should be as short as possible; the subject matter of the speech should be useful either for self or others and should not be useless rumors or gossips; Our actions should be compassionate and reflect care for others and it should not hurt others feelings. We should not keep talking on the past and future unless it has relevance for the present where we use past experience effectively and use it to plan for the future.
To err is human. Never spend your energy on pointing mistakes. Don’t sit and chew on your mistake or someone else’s mistake. Before pointing out the mistake of a person, see whether your comments in any way will help to improve the situation, foster love or bring harmony. What's the use of pointing out a mistake that one knows he has committed? By doing this, you will only make them feel more guilty, defensive or resentful and this will only create more distance. You should only point out the mistake of a person who does not know, but who wants to know. Do not point out the mistake of a person who knows but doesn't want you to know. Often people know the mistakes that they have committed, but they do not want you to tell them.
If someone else have made a mistake forgive and forget. If you have made a mistake, ask for forgiveness and move on. Don’t get stuck. Magnanimous person will neither picks on the mistake of others nor blame him-self as ill-fated. However, we should correct them with compassion and care, not through words but through attitudes.
Be enthusiastic about your actions work. A work slovenly carried dissatisfies the mind and a work with delight is energizing and charming. A creative work with delight keeps you a heightened state of awareness. You will have more time to do what you want to; along with doing what you anyways have to.
You communicate more by your presence than by your words. But, as we grow develop, somehow we miss taking care of this sublime aspect of our lives. Our presence weakens as innumerable impressions of our past experiences accumulate and clog our mind. In order to develop our mind we have to get rid of them completely. Through repeated efforts alone can this be done? New wholesome habits have to be formed to replace the old ones. And it surely takes time.
How soon do you want success? Progress takes place slowly and almost imperceptibly. We may have to continue doing our life style practices for long time before any tangible progress can be noticed. It is good to judge our-selves once in a while. It is common in many who have engaged in developing them often want to know how much progress they have made. Unfortunately it is not the way. It is not easy to observe our mental growth. It is like measuring the height of a young child every day to know how much he has grown. Unless a longer time is allowed to elapse between observations it will not be possible to notice how much growth has occurred. Same is true in judging our personality.
We need a strong will and great tenacity to persevere. The old unwholesome habits of the mind are hard. This habits nurtured through many years of indulgence, can be extremely stubborn. It takes at least few months to burst it or pierce through it. It is possible only through perseverance patience and practice. The earlier you explore yourself with life style practices suggested yoga, and meditation combined with a systematic plan of diet, combined with lovely rejuvenating sessions the faster you get to accelerate success in all aspects of your life. You get the confidence and the ability to achieve whatever you want in life with an unshakable smile. This also makes an impact on people around you to look up to you as an inspiration!
Imagine such a state when your problems stop being problems, you get the strength to willingly face them with a smile and turn them into opportunities. Don't you think this is a sign of a successful person? This is what unshakable personality. Knowledge & personality development books are easily available everywhere — but what books cannot transmit is the personal magnetism, the presence, the friendly and warm atmosphere the love we share. The life like graphic appearance, the vibes transmitting through our presence, actions and behavior all uplift the life energy around you enhance personal attractiveness that enables you to influence others, intuition, creativity, enthusiasm, intelligence and strengthens your charisma!!!